I can honestly see the movie in my head!!! There’s an invitation sent at the end of a mans life and the movie unwraps the love story of this well to do winemaker in NZ (maybe). When he first came to the area he stumbled across this married woman, they fall in love and spend some passionate time together but her husband is ultra religious and he gets mad and cuts off all her hair and at some point she goes back to him and wine guy is left holding a candle for her until the day he dies. I believe it’s a foreign language film... I believe the winemaker is Dutch.... help!?